Writing letters to loved ones before you pass
For the past 20 years, we’ve had the privilege of talking to many of those who are at the end of their life, either through terminal illness or who have naturally aged. The one lesson they always teach is their desire to reach out from Heaven to share in their loved ones’ future moments. That’s why we’ve created Forever Card by Cardiology – a service that allows you to write cards to loved ones before dying.
Forever Card by Cardiology is a gift that heals from beyond the grave.
Closure and Comfort
We already know that cards are treasured keepsakes. Your heartfelt sentiments will heal hurting hearts beyond your death. These authentic moments of love, peace, hope and forgiveness will bring closure and comfort to those left behind in immeasurable ways. Your Forever Card will describe your love for others. Importantly, it is the perfect way to make amends to a strained relationship.
Each Forever Card is produced on premium quality paper so that it remains a precious heirloom. It’s customised with a name on the front and a beautiful timestamp (e.g. open when you’re missing me). Forever Cards are written in beautiful calligraphy, signed with your name. They can also be blank, with space for you to write for yourself in your precious handwriting. If you need help on what to write, we’ve got a free template you can follow if the words don’t seem to flow.
Missed Milestones
Your loved ones will feel your absence the most around special occasions. Forever Cards are designed for Birthdays, Anniversaries, Graduations and Weddings. These are the common events you may miss out on when you pass. But, there are also “regular” days when losses are tough to take. Forever Cards are perfect for these moments as well. We know your loved ones will wish they had your reassuring words to help them navigate through life without you and this is the beauty of you planning your departure with Forever Card by Cardiology.
Legacy
One of the greatest driving forces for writing lessons to our loved ones is to preserve the good memories they have of you. Writing a letter, in your own words, is the best way to preserve your legacy of love for them.
Can we deliver your Last Letters after you depart?
Absolutely. We will need three people to make contact with in the event that your primary contact changes their contact details.
Can we deliver it to you before you depart?
Yes, certainly.
What should I write?
We know the words might not always come to you. But, we’re writers by nature and so, we’re always available to guide your thoughts.
Firstly, write when you’re healthy enough to do it. Try not to wait until the very end. If you’re at the end, we’re happy to schedule a phone call with you and have your dictate your messages to us. We’ll do everything in our power to make this process as simple as possible.
Secondly, review who the important people in your life are. Start with a simple list. If you feel up to writing down why they are important to you, then jot it down. But, if you’re only able to make a list of names, that’s fine too.
Next, remember treasured moments from your life. Invariably, those memories carry the faces of others. Who are they? What was the moment?
Thereafter, apologise to those you hurt. We often focus on what was said in the heat of conflict. But, if you focus on what was not said, you can set others free from the guilt of a fight and bring healing to that relationship, even after you’ve passed on.
You might want to forgive those who have hurt you if you are ready. Forgiveness is always about your own awakening. It’s always about you deciding for yourself to let go of energy that does not serve you. Forgiveness, as a by-product also sets the wrong-doer free. It doesn’t make their action excusable, but it does remove the tension of anger and that’s when the shift happens within.
Especially if you’re receiving treatment — whether at a facility or at home — you could next express your gratitude for all the love and care you have received. To write a meaningful letter of thanks, fulfil these steps: Acknowledge the act you are grateful for; talk about the nature of a giver who could do such a kind thing; and lastly, encourage them to continue doing that act for others based on how it made you feel.
Go back to your first list, where you noted those who are important to you. Now, start with how much you love them and what the gift of their presence has brought you.
Lastly, it’s time to say goodbye. This is understandably the most difficult part and you may shed precious tears. Honour those tears by realising that each one falls from the depth of love you have and that love deserves to be preserved in your card for your loved ones to read. Again, if you’re finding it difficult to write, we’re so willing to get onto a call with you to help you write.
If you’re ready, click here to order your Last Letter.